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I just read “Better Than Normal: Virtues for an Off-Script Life” by MaryAnn McKibben Dana and it truly is a life changing book.

In a world obsessed with fitting in, Better Than Normal dares to ask a revolutionary question: What if the problem isn’t people who don’t conform, but the idea of “normal” itself?

Author and pastor MaryAnn McKibben Dana delivers a powerful critique of society’s restrictive expectations while offering a transformative vision for human flourishing. Drawing from her experience as a mother navigating mental health challenges with her children, she reveals how forcing people into ill-fitting boxes creates cycles of shame, stigma, and othering that diminish us all.

This isn’t just another self-help book—it’s an exploration of how culture shapes our understanding of worthiness and belonging. And it’s a study that extends far beyond mental health to encompass anyone living outside society’s narrow bounds—neurodivergent individuals, LGBTQ+ people, racial minorities, those with disabilities—populations that collectively represent the majority of us. McKibben Dana demonstrates that liberation comes not from adjusting to dominant culture, but from creating spaces where all people can thrive authentically.

You can check it out at the library or order from B&N:

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/better-than-normal-maryann-mckibben-dana/1147910235?ean=9780802884831